Introduction and Jumping Right In

Well, good afternoon! Many of the people I respect and admire say blogging is a must for various reasons. Thought I’d give it a try, but I want to be able to say whatever happens to be on my mind. So, if you’re offended easily, I recommend you stop reading.

I am female, single and in my late 40s. I look good for my age and take care of myself. I don’t date much, primarily because I haven’t found anyone lately that I’d be interested in dating and/or because anyone I might be interested in doesn’t have the courage to ask. (I can be intimidating!) I’m a bit old-fashioned like that. I believe the man is the hunter and he needs to hunt – for his own sense of self as much as to impress me. I’m not saying I’m playing games, I’m just not going to do all the work for him. Let the man play the man’s role and the woman play her role. I think a man feels good about himself when he has hunted and caught something! Not so much if it was easy prey.

That’s also why I don’t believe in sleeping with a man too soon – if you’re interested in him. My girlfriends used to complain about men not calling after they’d made “such a great connection.” Right. That great, alcohol-induced connection that made you not remember his name, what he did for a living or if you used condoms! Don’t come crying to me about that crap – over and over again! Have sex with a guy if you want to – we’re made to procreate and men are made to inseminate – just leave it at that with no other expectations.

So, my thought with this blog is to post random thoughts, occurrences, ideas, fantasies, whatever happens to feel right. Some may be boring, some may be funny, you just never know what you’re going to get here. But it will all be based on living here in this beautiful town of Santa Barbara! Welcome!